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Cathy Joseph's avatar

I love this, Miriam! First of all, you have given me a name form my favorite shade of red - thank you. What a great story around that color, as well!

I had not heard of Lagom, but I do incorporate the concept of "just enough" in corporate training I deliver. Some people thrive on details and the more the better. Others, like me, grasp ideas quickly and need very few. Too many and I start to shut down. As a trainer, I need to find the sweet spot of "just enough" (and have used that term) in which detail people can get what they need and people like me don't get overwhelmed or lost in an area of "too much."

Thank you for the delightful Swedish treats today!

Miriam🌼Carlson-Maier's avatar

Hi Cathy! So glad you enjoyed this letter. That’s a great use of the idea of Lagom - it’s about balance, and the sensitivity to adjust it to your circumstances (and those around you). For Swedes - it’s just part of how we think and see the world - so it doesn’t require really any effort. Even so, I appreciate being thoughtful about it when I can, and expressing it. To keep it top of mind, and also to really feel that contentment. Thanks for sharing your experience with it!

What do you teach? Teaching is quite an art - especially in corporate environments!

Cathy Joseph's avatar

Currently, I train organizations in the use of two different technology platforms. I have also delivered management, leadership, skills-based training and would love to get back to more of that.

Brenda Tarrant's avatar

Love it! Combining your Iagom to my hygge will be perfect. I want to read more about it!

Miriam🌼Carlson-Maier's avatar

Hey Brenda! All these Nordic lifestyle concepts relate to each other - I write often about Hygge and how it makes life better 👉🏼https://letters.thewhiskeyporch.com/p/that-hygge-time-of-year?r=2lml1e

There’s so much more to share about Lagom but I wanted to keep this letter short … hope you enjoy exploring!

Denise E Potter's avatar

That’s fascinating Miriam. I always wondered about the red used for so many houses in Sweden. I’ve never heard of Lagom but I’ll try to incorporate it into my life.

Miriam🌼Carlson-Maier's avatar

Hi Denise! So cool when there’s a story behind colors and cultural traditions, isn’t it? I hope you find some Lagom to celebrate in your life - those small moments of “just enough” that bring a little calm and contentment. Happy Friday!